Sometimes people want to reduce sexual tension…or they are horney. And when they go to have sex, it isn’t because they crave that person, their wife or husband, it’s because they are simply horney. The writer says if you want to keep your sex drive alive it is not a matter of new techniques, or communication but self-development….you have to grow up. “The solution involves shifting from desire out of horniness to desire for the “partner”...wanting to share something with him or her. It’s the shift from impersonal sex, like boys have, to having sex like a man.”
This is so powerful to me because sex should be a sharing of oneself not masturbation with a partner.
The writer says it takes a long time to grow up sexually.
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